I've always respected those who "keep it real". There is something about a person's ability to say how "it is" and speak the truth, even if it means sacrificing oneself to the ridicule and judgment of others.
The ability to be oneself at all times times tremendous strength. It builds character and resilience. When you are able to take constructive criticism from others, accept your "failures" and laugh at yourself, it strengthens you even more.
Some of us are born strong and resilient. Others become stronger and resilient, due to their life's experiences.
In order to become stronger and resilient, one must first become open. Learn to look at yourself objectively and to accept what "is", without feeling regret for what isn't or wasn't. Laugh at yourself. View your "mistakes" as learning opportunities. For every negative, there is a positive. The past is the past and there is absolutely nothing that you can do to change it.
Realize, accept and appreciate all of your experiences for what they are/were.
There is only one "you", so embrace yourself with pride, joy and acceptance. Be less concerned with others' opinions of you and focus more on the version of yourself of who you would like to become.
It's all in your mindset. If you envision it, it can happen, but you have to believe, wholeheartedly, in your vision. Trust yourself and the choices that you make. Stand up for what you believe in and be an advocate for others who are doing the same. By doing so, you increase the energy that flows towards you becoming your true self.
When you believe in yourself, you increase self-trust and, with that, you become more sure of your true self.
Always be true to yourself, others may not agree, but, if you are consistent, they will at least respect you.
GYPSY!
